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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">This transaction was executed in multiple trades at prices ranging from $52.31 to $52.45. The price reported above reflects the weighted average sale price. The reporting person hereby undertakes to provide upon request to the SEC staff, the issuer or a security holder of the issuer full information regarding the number of shares and prices at which the transaction was effected.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">On June 26, 2018, the Company announced that effective January 1, 2019 the primary U.S. Company sponsored 401(k) plan would no longer allow contributions to be made to the employer stock fund to align with industry trends to remove investment in the employer's stock as an option in a company sponsored 401(k) plan.  All participants in this plan, including the named officer, are required to transfer remaining funds in the employer stock fund to other fund options by December 31, 2022.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">5,600 stock options granted on 02/08/2011 (previously reported on Form 4) that vested in 25% increments per year from date of grant.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Philip D. Fracassa</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2019-11-05</signatureDate>
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X0306
4
2019-11-04
0
0000098362
TIMKEN CO
TKR
0001598539
Fracassa Philip D.
4500 MT. PLEASANT ST. NW
NORTH CANTON
OH
44720
0
1
0
0
EVP & CFO
Common Stock
2019-11-04
4
M
0
5600
35.97
A
60595
D
Common Stock
2019-11-04
4
F
0
754
52.47
D
59841
D
Common Stock
2019-11-04
4
S
0
4846
52.38
D
54995
D
Common Stock
2019-11-04
4
I
0
1896
53.07
D
0
I
401(k)
Employee Stock Option (right to buy)
35.97
2019-11-04
4
M
0
5600
0
D
2012-02-08
2021-02-08
Common Stock
5600.0
0
D
This transaction was executed in multiple trades at prices ranging from $52.31 to $52.45. The price reported above reflects the weighted average sale price. The reporting person hereby undertakes to provide upon request to the SEC staff, the issuer or a security holder of the issuer full information regarding the number of shares and prices at which the transaction was effected.
On June 26, 2018, the Company announced that effective January 1, 2019 the primary U.S. Company sponsored 401(k) plan would no longer allow contributions to be made to the employer stock fund to align with industry trends to remove investment in the employer's stock as an option in a company sponsored 401(k) plan.  All participants in this plan, including the named officer, are required to transfer remaining funds in the employer stock fund to other fund options by December 31, 2022.
5,600 stock options granted on 02/08/2011 (previously reported on Form 4) that vested in 25% increments per year from date of grant.
/s/ Philip D. Fracassa
2019-11-05