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        <footnote id="F1">The reporting person no longer has a reportable beneficial interest in 100 shares of CHCO common stock owned by his son, Charles J. Hageboeck, and included in the reporting person's prior ownership reports.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Includes shares acquired pursuant to the Company's 401(k) Plan &amp; Trust during the fiscal year in transactions exempt from 16b under old Rule 16a8(b).  Share totals are reported as of the 12/31/2018 plan valuation date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Each restricted stock unit represents the right to receive, at settlement, one share of common stock.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">One-third of these restricted stock units are scheduled to vest on each of February 27, 2020; February 27, 2021; and February 27, 2022.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">One-third of these restricted stock units are scheduled to vest on each of February 28, 2019; February 28, 2020; and February 28, 2021.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Options shares granted from City Holding Company's 2013 Incentive Plan are subject to both time-based and performance-based vesting.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Victoria A. Faw, attorney-in-fact</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2019-02-28</signatureDate>
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2019-02-27
0
0000726854
CITY HOLDING CO
CHCO
0001234855
HAGEBOECK CHARLES R
25 GATEWATER ROAD
CROSS LANES
WV
25313
1
1
0
0
President & CEO
Common Stock
58714
D
Common Stock
0
I
by son, Charles J. Hageboeck
Common Stock
100
I
by son, Robert B. Hageboeck
Common Stock
100
I
by daughter, Katherine E. Hageboeck
Common Stock
100
I
by daughter, Emily F. Hageboeck
Common Stock
5650
I
by spouse, Samantha D. Hageboeck
Common Stock
1782.709
I
by 401(k) Plan and Trust
Common Stock
0.0
2019-02-27
4
A
0
1864
0
A
Common Stock
1864.0
1864
D
Restricted Stock Unit
0.0
Common Stock
1749.0
1749
D
Stock Option to Buy
44.43
2019-03-26
2024-03-25
Common Stock
2010.0
2010
D
Stock Option to Buy
46.61
2019-02-26
2025-02-25
Common Stock
1978.0
1978
D
Stock Option to Buy
46.61
2020-02-26
2025-02-25
Common Stock
1980.0
3958
D
Stock Option to Buy
43.73
2019-02-24
2026-02-23
Common Stock
3660.0
3660
D
Stock Option to Buy
43.73
2020-02-24
2026-02-23
Common Stock
3660.0
7320
D
Stock Option to Buy
43.73
2021-02-24
2026-02-23
Common Stock
3660.0
10980
D
Stock Option to Buy
66.32
2020-02-22
2027-02-21
Common Stock
2524.0
2524
D
Stock Option to Buy
66.32
2021-02-22
2027-02-21
Common Stock
2524.0
5048
D
Stock Option to Buy
66.32
2022-02-22
2027-02-21
Common Stock
2524.0
7572
D
The reporting person no longer has a reportable beneficial interest in 100 shares of CHCO common stock owned by his son, Charles J. Hageboeck, and included in the reporting person's prior ownership reports.
Includes shares acquired pursuant to the Company's 401(k) Plan & Trust during the fiscal year in transactions exempt from 16b under old Rule 16a8(b).  Share totals are reported as of the 12/31/2018 plan valuation date.
Each restricted stock unit represents the right to receive, at settlement, one share of common stock.
One-third of these restricted stock units are scheduled to vest on each of February 27, 2020; February 27, 2021; and February 27, 2022.
One-third of these restricted stock units are scheduled to vest on each of February 28, 2019; February 28, 2020; and February 28, 2021.
Options shares granted from City Holding Company's 2013 Incentive Plan are subject to both time-based and performance-based vesting.
Victoria A. Faw, attorney-in-fact
2019-02-28